It’s a great question! Community is invaluable in hard times, but therapy and friendship serve very different purposes. So, let’s break it down—why invest in therapy when you could just talk to someone you already know?
Unlike a casual conversation with a friend, therapy is a dedicated space for your personal growth.
Therapists are trained to be fully present with no expectations, no interruptions, and no judgment—something even the best friendships can’t always offer. Therapists literally spend hours and hours outside of your session time preparing to be the best resource and safe space for you so you can receive all that the therapeutic space can provide.
Therapy Goes Beyond Venting—It’s About Healing
Friends are great listeners, but they aren’t trained to strategically help you untangle deep emotional, communication and behavioral patterns, dive into your trauma or develop personalized coping strategies – to name a few of the many things your therapist may do with you.
A therapist:
✔ Helps you understand and work through the root of your struggles, so they are not just providing comfort.
✔ Uses evidence-based techniques to help you move forward and out of this place.
✔ Brings an outside, unbiased perspective that isn’t emotionally tied to the situation.
Unlike a friend, a therapist isn’t connected to your family, spouse, or coworkers—which means you can process tough relationships without worrying about hurt feelings or biased advice.
Therapists spend years studying and practicing how to help people just like you navigate anxiety, postpartum mental health, relationship difficulties, trauma, and more.
For those who value faith, therapy with a faith-based clinician offers something unique:
“Behold, I make all things new.” – Revelation 21:5
We integrate faith as much (or as little) as each client desires, always respecting your personal choice. This integration can add a level of depth that many people of faith find incredibly valuable and transformative.
Both friendships and therapy are incredibly valuable, but they serve different roles.
Many people find that therapy and friendships work incredibly together—it is not a competition. If you’re in a season where growth and healing feel especially imperative to you, therapy can be a powerful next step to add additional support to what you already have in your community.
If you find yourself or a loved one recognizing the desire for a more targeted level of support, we’d be honored to walk alongside you on your journey towards healing and wholeness.
When you’re ready, we’re here.
Cheering you on,
-Lizzy Hollwedel
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